October 21, 2007
“What makes you weep, my friend? In you is all power. Summon up your all-powerful nature, O mighty one and this whole universe will lie at your feet. It is the self alone that predominates and not matter”
— Swami Vivekananda
Though the potential strength is hidden within us, we are not able to utilize it. Right attitude, positive thinking and firm faith alone can help us to manifest this hidden strength within
How do great people achieve success in life? They cultivate certain qualities in order to awaken the hidden confidence within themselves. Why not we also give a try if we wish to be great and successful in life?
1) Conviction
2) Hard Works
3) Will-Power
4) Self-respect
5) Long Preparation
6) Communication
7) Commitment
Discrimination
9) Definite Goal
10) Love
11) Concentration
12) Strength
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October 21, 2007
There is thin line dividing confidence and ego. Most of the time we get confused and fail to decide whether we are on the right track or our ego is dominating in the guise of confidence. When ego dominates, every success turns into failure. One has to be very careful about it. How to distinguish between confidence and the ego? Here are some points to clarify this doubt.
a) A man of confidence says that he can do the work and others also can do it, whereas a man of ego says that he alone can do it and nobody else can.
b) A man of confidence always tries to encourage and help others in building their confidence where as a man of ego tries to curb and discourage others when they try to come up in life.
c) A man of confidence always attracts people. Even the weak feel confident and elevated in his presence and get inspiration in his company. Whereas an egoist person creates repulsion in the mind of people who try to avoid him because of his boastful nature.
d) A man of confidence appreciates the success of others and shares his happiness with them. Where as a man of ego discourages and humiliates others and feels jealous of the success of others.
e) There is joy in working with people of confidence because they are always cheerful and can mix freely with everybody. In the presence of egoist people even the men of confidence feel an inferiority complex. They feel nervous to work with them
f) A man of confidence always commands love and respects , whereas a man of ego always demands and expects love and respect
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